Integrity and principles

Sometimes our words and actions may affect others in a negative manner.

We can allow this to dominate our lives or we can choose to accept the matter for what it actually is. If your intention was kind and pure then I suggest that you rest easily and do not get deterred from your mission.

We ARE responsible for our actions and words. However, we are not expected to censor ourselves to the extent of altering our personality because we become afraid of maybe offending someone. If your heart is true then remember that in this world there will be some people - maybe many people – who may never support or encourage you: that is their choice. They may find your approach abrasive and too direct, they may regard you as misguided or hurtful. What is important is that you do not allow their growth journey to negatively impact on yours.

When situations occur you should already be conscious of your integrity and principles so that the event will not overturn you (you may suffer temporary derailment while you deal with the bruises of the attack but these will pass).

Pick yourself up, dust yourself (and your ego) off and return to your plan. If it wasn’t a good plan for you then you would have already made a different one.

Retain your standards and keep moving towards your goal.

It's not fair!

It’s unfair!

I know it’s unfair.

I could list a whole string of events and situations that I think are unfair and I’m sure that anyone could do the same. They could do it right now, without a second thought. A long list could appear that will detail all the unfair things in my world, in your world, in THE world.

I know that it is an undeniable fact that things happen in this world that ARE unfair.

The question that I need to answer when this happens is what am I going to do about it?

I’m not a fighter by nature but sometimes you have to struggle to achieve your goals. You have to fight to gain the change you need.

You have to put the effort in to achieve your dream result.

You have to get training.

It’s time to get into the training mode.

I know that this is my time.

This is it.

I have found my gentle and determined fighter within and I am active to make things fair, to make them different, and to make a change.