What is love?
Ahh! The age old question that no one can answer with
certainty or proof. Love just ... is.
Who you love is not guaranteed. There is no certainty or any
specific formula to follow and get guaranteed results. Love is a mystery. It always has been and I think it always will
be.
This is why I have decided that I have had enough of
attending the class ‘Futile exercise in
love 101’.
These sessions were aimed at educating me in how to stop loving
someone I already love and also to teach me to love someone I had no connection
with. What was the point? You may well ask ...
I spent some time wondering what this ‘connection’ was and I
could get no clear answer.
This is where my conundrum comes in: love is both a mystery
and not a mystery.
It is a mystery when it first occurs.
Love is organic, natural and magical. It just happens ... or
it doesn’t. There is no formula that can be reproduced; it is unique between
two people.
Love is also a mystery when you are trying to love someone
you don’t love – it doesn’t work. Try to make love happen and it’s a totally
different matter. It’s like reversing the natural, yet still mysterious,
process of growing love, it is nigh on impossible.
This emotion, feeling, experience of love is so wonderful
when a single person experiences it but so much more life-enhancing and encompassing
when two people have the same sense of connection to each other.
Mysterious and ... lovely.
But yet – no mystery when you are in it. Just a marvellous
sense of beauty, well being and rightness.
Mysterious and ... lovely.
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