Doing hurtful and negative things to others only hurts them. Right?
Willard White (in the Guardian 15/4/05) said something that rang true to me:
“We choose to do things that we think will make us feel good ... If the foundation of that choice is steeped in the poison of what we feel about ourselves, we can do really terrible things. Every human being wants happiness, and wants to be at peace. So why choose to do something destructive, which is actually an act against yourself?"
(Yes, this is Willard White Week!)
Destruction of others leads to self destruction.